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How to Handle the Hurting

In my last blog – The Dark Side of Love – I wrote about the painful ending of a brief, but beautiful, love affair. There I was expanding into love at a rate of knots, when “Boom!” – up came my shadow and, within days, the magical mystery ride came to a crashing halt. Now […]

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The Dark Side of Love

I’m really not sure how to start this blog. I’ve been living in despair for the past couple of weeks. Feeling like my chest has been ripped open. Hopeless, grief-stricken, wanting to die. Barely functioning. This is not, I imagine you thinking, what one expects of a juicy Priestess of Love, especially when you find […]

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My Sexy Shadow

When you deny a single aspect of yourself, you’re denying a part of what you need to be whole. We give away our most treasured aspects to those we hate and those we love without knowing it. We can’t embrace certain things because we have too much invested in our judgements and criticisms. We lack […]

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Make Love, Not War

This is my response to the appalling events that took place in Paris on Friday, November 13th, 2015. And I’m keenly aware that in broaching such a sensitive topic, I lay myself open to critique – from all sides. And yet, this is something I am moved to share. When one human being kills another […]

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Needy or normal?

Attachment principles teach us that most people are only as needy as their unmet needs. When their emotional needs are met, and the earlier the better, they usually turn their attention outward. This is sometimes referred to… as the “dependency paradox”: The more effectively dependent people are on one another, the more independent and daring […]

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Saying Goodbye To Mr Right

For all that I’ve studied, taught, lived through and meditated on authentic relating, I’m still a die-hard romantic.  I guess it’s hard-wired into my double-Libran genes. So the title for this blog is a little unexpected, even to me! But today I want to write about when the most loving thing you can do in […]

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Healing the Wounds of Love

Today, as I reach the 200-day mark of the Mera Man Lochai Mantra Meditation to Heal the Wounds of Love, I want to take a moment to reflect on my journey thus far. As a reminder to those who aren’t familiar with it, this meditation, from the Kundalini Yoga tradition, involves reciting a mantra, comprised […]

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